Monday, August 15, 2011
Becoming a surrogate mother?
i am 19. i just had my baby 4 months ago. i've been doing a lot of thinking lately. i'm not saying this to be weird or anything, but i honestly loved being pregnant. the excitement and anticipation of waiting to meet the little baby that was growing inside of you. all of the appointments and ultrasounds, feeling someone growing inside you, feeling them kick and move. i absolutely loved it. ever since about a month or so i've been wanting to become pregnant again, but i know it's not the right time for us to be bringing another child into our household. we are barely able to make sure our daughter gets everything she needs, and then some. then i got to thinking about my mother. she couldnt have children, but she went the adoption route, and just thinking about some things that have been going on in my life recently. does the idea of a 19 year old becoming a surrogate mother sound too ridiculous? i love the idea of being pregnant again, but not having the worries of how are we going to support and raise the child. not to mention helping out a family who either cannot concieve or wish not to get pregnant but still want natural children. either way, i will be giving the gift of life. and not to mention surrogates get paid pretty good, and i'm not gonna lie, the idea of being able to care for my own family and give them everything they deserve sounds pretty good to me. do you think it's crazy for me to want to become a surrogate mother at 19? or do you think it wouldnt work for me. some advice and opinions would be great, thank you in advance!
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