Ever had serious discussion about with your partner ?

Tell him to get reacquainted with his right hand. He is a big baby and very selfish. If you are not into oral and you have given it your most honest try and just can't, he should appreciate your effort for trying. I was recently in the hospital and had a hysterectomy. I couldn't have for 8 weeks after. My husband and I discussed it before we got to that point and agreed on ways to be intimate and satisfied at the same time. Communication is good but if you are fighting and crying about it, you aren't effectively communicating. He is reacting. Talk about it when you aren't being intimate.